The balance is hard to find between remaining silent and letting others learn their own lessons or having your say to hopefully stop someone unnecessary pain.
The choice is to try to help or sit still and observe.
Perennial observers are accused of being avoiders and perennial helpers are accused of being interfering.
The solution is with one exception, offer your advice and help and if wanted then give it.
The exception is when the other person is angry. Never offer help to an angry person, rather sit and wait for them to overcome their anger and if they do then offer help.
From my guide Crazy Horse through Ian Rogers Director Sphinx Spiritual
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