Crazy Horse on negotiating

When negotiating a peace with another person, no matter who and what the problem stems from conduct yourself by;

Sitting down where you are both placed equally and on level ground.
Earn the other person's respect through listening.
Reply courteously.
Be sincere in your attitude and actions.
Do not consider winning, for to win is to lose.
Demonstrate your good faith.
Maintain your pious belief in your position.
Allow the other person to do the same.
Moderate your position in favour of the other person.
Never concoct a lie or half truth.
Do not be evangelical.
Resist the temptation to harass the other person to an outcome.
Where you believe the other person is not understanding you, do not think of them as being stupid, re explain.
Only continue to negotiate where you believe the other person wants an outcome.
If ever you realise you are negotiating with a lier, stop and walk away for they have just made the ground you are negotiating on, uneven.
Once you have walked away either decide to disassociate with the other person or fight them.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on success

Success is when people are attracted to you because of your loving energy and they accept it is that which will best propel them through their life.

When people are attracted to you for other reasons, they are more for earthly gains.

From my guide Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on sorrow

Sorrow is that pitiful place you get into when you realise you have handed control of you own life to another.

From my guide CrazyHorse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on control

When I learned to ride a horse, I quickly learned that I was riding the horse, not controlling it and often, not even steering it.

Once I understood that the horse did not need my control, I was able to ride it in such a different way and in so many positions.  The horse reacted to this and ran in such a way that allowed me to ride better and to experiment on different ways to be on the horse.

This resulted in much higher levels of exhilaration and I became a better horse rider.

So it is with life.  Relinquish the need for control, accept your path and find ways to be exhilarated by your life and you will be a better human.

From my guide Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on belonging

Because all things and all people on earth are connected, the feeling of belonging is a part of that.

No person on earth exists outside the framework of being connected to all others.  Therefore, all people belong to at least one thing and that is co-existence on earth.

In reality, each person belongs to many things eg. the earth, their country, their village, their community and their friends.

The more evolved the person, the more they will feel a belonging to all of these groups.

A lack of belonging will be because of self exclusion or group exclusion.

If you self exclude, it could be a good or bad decision, but you will lose a sense of belonging.

If you are excluded, the decision of the group might be right or wrong, but you will still lose a sense of belonging.

When that sense of belonging is lost, anger rises and decision making is impaired.  With the advent of anger, the person's feelings of love disappear proportionately.

As people come to earth to increase their own levels of love, therefore, the level of love on earth; a lack of belonging works directly against this primal objective.

Therefore, belonging is an intrinsic part of life on earth.  No person exists alone.  No person can grow alone.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on ancestors

The actions of your ancestors are meant to liberate you, not confine you.

As people understand this, growth can come to earth.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher

Crazy Horse on today

Today is a point in time when you embrace your future.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on Tomorrow

Tomorrow is a point in time which can't yet hurt you.

It will not hurt you,unless you do not make changes by tomorrow.

Therefore,you are in control of tomorrow.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on revenge

Revenge is a dish, eaten hot or cold, which will reduce your appetite for the rest of  your earthly journey.

From my guide Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on pride

Pride is an outcome of self reliance.

Self reliance is an outcome of action.

Action requires input from others.

From my guide Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher

Crazy Horse on receiving help

People who never seek help to overcome the emotional hurts of their life, will always be limited in the relationship they have, or can have.

People who spend years receiving help for the emotional hurts of their life, will always be limited in the relationship they have, or can have.

Those who never seek help will carry with them a blocked off part of themselves which will stop them showing all of themselves.

Those who are forever receiving help face the trap of living in the past and will not fully face the future.

Receiving help is essential.  So is learning from the help and acting upon it.

From my guide Crazy Horse through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher

Crazy Horse on being lonely

When not in a relationship, loneliness is having no one to share what you experienced and learned during that day.

When in a relationship, loneliness is when the person with you does not want to listen to what you experienced and learned during that day.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher

Crazy Horse on coming of age

The coming of age for an Indian boy was when we were accepted as a warrior.

The coming of age for a person in your civilisation is when you choose to take time from your life to rescue another.

Once rescued and back to full strength, what do you do when they turn on you, which so often happens.

Move on from them and seek the next one to help.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.

Crazy Horse on insecurity

Insecurity is when you are in a dark stage in life and whilst you are aware there is a light guiding you forward, you cannot trust it.

Instead you wander around in the dark trying to find your own way and getting more and more lost and fearful.

Therefore, security lays in trusting the direction the light is taking you in and following it.

From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.