Ambivalence is toeing the line that others expect you to, at the same time as purporting to toe your own line, then finding a way to bring peace to yourself for not following exactly what you wanted to do and peace with the others for doing exactly what they wanted you to do.
The result is no peace and a nagging sense of dishonesty.
Ambivalence is the tool of a pleaser who wants to please everyone, including themselves, a little bit and no one totally.
From my guide Crazy Horse through Ian Rogers Director Sphinx Spiritual
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