When someone in your family passes, someone you were not close to, someone with whom you could or should have shared a loving relationship, but did not; you will still be affected by their passing.
It will bring forward to the top of your mind feelings of pain and hurt caused by the non loving relationship. It will bring a sadness of what could and should have been and with that a flatness and heaviness. These feelings only exist when the person who passed was incapable of telling you they were incapable of loving you as you needed.
Herein, lies your solution, your hurt was mainly due to an expectation that you deserved to be loved by this person, without fully understanding they were incapable of this. Set yourself free of this expectation and look forward to the tomorrow's of your life, not lamenting the yesterday's.
Your life will be full of people who cannot love you as you need. It is better to spend your time searching for those who can love you as you need.
From my guide, Crazy Horse, through Ian Rogers, medium and spiritual teacher.
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